Written on Sept 21, 2012
These past few days have been a series of celebrations for me, spread widely across cultural and religious spectrums. I partook in festivites marking the 50th anniversary of Happy Valley, the first Tibetan settlement in India and the first place the Dalai Lama came to after he escaped Tibet - festivities that included seeing the Dalai Lama himself. I observed Rosh Hashana with my Bridge Year group, I celebrated my 18th Birthday, and we marked the end of our time in Mussoorie with a deliciously home-cooked meal at my Hindi tutor's home.
Before I was told that we would be seeing the Dalai Lama, I knew what most people know about him - that he's an important religious figure and that he lives in exile from his native Tibet. In preparation for meeting him, we watched a movie about his life, called Kunmun, and between the movie and peppering my program director with questions, my knowledge suddenly grew exponentially in the span of two hours. The Dalai Lama is, traditionally, both the religious leader of the dominant sect of Tibetan Buddhism, as well as the political leader of Tibet, itself. (The current Dalai Lama, despite having taken on serious political responsiblity as a teenager, officially stepped down from his political position a few years ago.) Buddhists believe that the Dalai Lama reincarnates, and thus, the one that is alive now, the one that we saw, is the 14th Dalai Lama. He was only around thirteen when China invaded Tibet, at which time he was called on to negotiate with the powerful, worldly Mao Zedong, the Communist leader of China at the time. I won't recap the entire movie or everything that I learned, but the basic point is that China was a lot more powerful than the army-less, pacifist nation of Tibet and, for his own safety, the Dalai Lama had to flee Tibet in 1959, and hasn't been back since. Likewise, not very much progress has been made in terms of solving the Tibet-China problem, and Tibet continues to be a non-autonomous, Chinese-controlled region.
The most interesting thing that struck me while watching the movie was the issue of maintainting a theocracy - which Tibet was at the time of the Chinese invasion - in the modern world. For centuries, the people of Tibet had been entirely isolated from the rest of the world, and were completely satisfied with their system of governence, as well as lovingly devoted to the Dalai Lama. There is no reason why they shouldn't be able to maintain that tradition in the modern world, no reason why their cultural heritage and traditions should be taken from them; but, at the same time, once outside influence seeps in to Tibet and cultural exchange begins, beliefs and values will begin to shift, and there is no guarantee that a theocracy could continue to be representative of the entire population. And if it isn't, then what? How do those who don't identify unwaveringly with Buddhism or with the Dalai Lama come to terms with living in a country that has both those things at its very core?
After watching Kunmun and learning all these things about the Dalai Lama, it was a surreal experience to see him the very next day, listen to him speak, hear him laugh, and have him walk right beside me. It's difficult to comprehend how compassionate and postive he is without hearing him speak. As far as political and religious leaders go (of which he is/has been both), there is certainly no one in this world with such a pure sense of positivity as he. He spoke to us on the topic of compassion, emphasizing that one does not need to follow a religious code or identify with a certain religion in order to be an ethical human being, and that, furthermore, just because someone follows the rules of a religion, they are not a good person, nor are they a good Buddhist/Christian/Muslim/Jew etc unless they are compassionate, ethical people as well. The most endearing part of his presence was the way his demeanor gave the talk a relaxed, intimate atmosphere, as though he were a kind, loveable grandfather, sitting with his beloved grandchildren, telling them stories of the world. He certainly also made a lot of jokes, about himself and about others, heartily laughing all the time his distinct grandfather-ly laugh.
We were also celebrating the 50th anniversary of Happy Valley, a celebration that included a colorful, elaborate, costumed performance of Tibetan "opera." Wearing traditional Tibetan dress, ominous masks and rainbow headresses, the men and women on the stage marched, motioned, stomped and spun to foreboding, drum-laden music. It was like nothing I'd ever seen before, and even more special because of its true authenticity - we were the only foreigners in a massive tent packed with Tibetans of all ages, Tibetans who ran and jumped, bowed and crowded, asked for blessings and gave gifts as the Dalai Lama walked by - and we were lucky enough to be privy to a performance put on by and for these very people in celebration of their heritage and their most prominent member.
On Sunday night, I had the opportunity to celebrate Rosh Hashana in India. Since we were up the mountains, there wasn't another Jew for miles (other than my program director), and so Debi - my program director - and I celebrated together, and decided to share the celebration with the other members of my Bridge Year group as well. Debi put together an explanation of Rosh Hashana, which she read to everyone, after which we lit candles and all partook in Rosh Hashana customs together, eating apples and honey while Debi and I spoke about what Rosh Hashana means to us. It was really nice to share the holiday with the rest of the group, and being put in a situation where I had to explain Rosh Hashana to others actually made it a more reflective and meaningful Rosh Hashana for me, as I found myself expressing why it was important to me and how I am effected by its observence.
Immediately after Rosh Hashana ended, we launched into yet another celebration - my 18th birthday! It was strange to celebrate it away from home, my family and my friends, but my awesome new Bridge Year friends made it a wonderful celebration, full of delicious food, cake, surprises, gifts, cards and music. In addition to many other wonderful things, I am now the proud owner of beautiful, sparkly (glass) bangles (although less than were originally given to me, as it didn't take long before I broke a few, injuring myself in the process), the remaining of which are all currently adorning my arm. Mostly however, it was really nice to have people I've known for only a month - and some for less time than that - come together to celebrate with me, and to create such a wonderful celebration on my behalf.
The last celebration of the week took place at our Hindi tutor's house: At our last class, Yousef invited us to dinner at his home, an invitation that we took advantage of last night. It was a really special invitation to recieve because this obviously is not something he does for his other students, and also, considering the size of our group relative to the size of his home, it was quite an offer. I can say without a doubt that my entire Bridge Year group would agree that Yousef is the most interesting, thoughtful, endearing person we have met so far on this trip. He speaks with such candor and open-mindedness, but also with such conviction in his beliefs. We all sat together cross-legged on the rug-adorned floor of his bed-living-dining room and ate the most delicious meal we have had so far on this trip. I am proud to say that I ate for the first time with no silverware at all, even when we briefly ran out of chapatti (a flat, pita-like bread that is torn and used to scoop up the other food), at which point I followed his lead and simply pinched up my paneer with my fingers, plopping the delicious pieces in to my mouth. Although I can't say that I've mastered the hands-only technique when it comes to a soupier substance such as rice and dal, I'm well on my way! As always, it was really interesting to listen to Yousef speak, particularly about taking on responsibilities as head of the household after his father passed away, finding husbands for his sisters, and about his own arranged marriage, as well. It turns out that Yousef may be able to visit us in Banares later in the year, so we're all really looking forward to that!
And now, post celebration-mania, we're off to Benares, about to delve back in to real India and begin our gap year for real.
(pictures to come once I find a better internet connection)
These past few days have been a series of celebrations for me, spread widely across cultural and religious spectrums. I partook in festivites marking the 50th anniversary of Happy Valley, the first Tibetan settlement in India and the first place the Dalai Lama came to after he escaped Tibet - festivities that included seeing the Dalai Lama himself. I observed Rosh Hashana with my Bridge Year group, I celebrated my 18th Birthday, and we marked the end of our time in Mussoorie with a deliciously home-cooked meal at my Hindi tutor's home.
Before I was told that we would be seeing the Dalai Lama, I knew what most people know about him - that he's an important religious figure and that he lives in exile from his native Tibet. In preparation for meeting him, we watched a movie about his life, called Kunmun, and between the movie and peppering my program director with questions, my knowledge suddenly grew exponentially in the span of two hours. The Dalai Lama is, traditionally, both the religious leader of the dominant sect of Tibetan Buddhism, as well as the political leader of Tibet, itself. (The current Dalai Lama, despite having taken on serious political responsiblity as a teenager, officially stepped down from his political position a few years ago.) Buddhists believe that the Dalai Lama reincarnates, and thus, the one that is alive now, the one that we saw, is the 14th Dalai Lama. He was only around thirteen when China invaded Tibet, at which time he was called on to negotiate with the powerful, worldly Mao Zedong, the Communist leader of China at the time. I won't recap the entire movie or everything that I learned, but the basic point is that China was a lot more powerful than the army-less, pacifist nation of Tibet and, for his own safety, the Dalai Lama had to flee Tibet in 1959, and hasn't been back since. Likewise, not very much progress has been made in terms of solving the Tibet-China problem, and Tibet continues to be a non-autonomous, Chinese-controlled region.
The most interesting thing that struck me while watching the movie was the issue of maintainting a theocracy - which Tibet was at the time of the Chinese invasion - in the modern world. For centuries, the people of Tibet had been entirely isolated from the rest of the world, and were completely satisfied with their system of governence, as well as lovingly devoted to the Dalai Lama. There is no reason why they shouldn't be able to maintain that tradition in the modern world, no reason why their cultural heritage and traditions should be taken from them; but, at the same time, once outside influence seeps in to Tibet and cultural exchange begins, beliefs and values will begin to shift, and there is no guarantee that a theocracy could continue to be representative of the entire population. And if it isn't, then what? How do those who don't identify unwaveringly with Buddhism or with the Dalai Lama come to terms with living in a country that has both those things at its very core?
After watching Kunmun and learning all these things about the Dalai Lama, it was a surreal experience to see him the very next day, listen to him speak, hear him laugh, and have him walk right beside me. It's difficult to comprehend how compassionate and postive he is without hearing him speak. As far as political and religious leaders go (of which he is/has been both), there is certainly no one in this world with such a pure sense of positivity as he. He spoke to us on the topic of compassion, emphasizing that one does not need to follow a religious code or identify with a certain religion in order to be an ethical human being, and that, furthermore, just because someone follows the rules of a religion, they are not a good person, nor are they a good Buddhist/Christian/Muslim/Jew etc unless they are compassionate, ethical people as well. The most endearing part of his presence was the way his demeanor gave the talk a relaxed, intimate atmosphere, as though he were a kind, loveable grandfather, sitting with his beloved grandchildren, telling them stories of the world. He certainly also made a lot of jokes, about himself and about others, heartily laughing all the time his distinct grandfather-ly laugh.
We were also celebrating the 50th anniversary of Happy Valley, a celebration that included a colorful, elaborate, costumed performance of Tibetan "opera." Wearing traditional Tibetan dress, ominous masks and rainbow headresses, the men and women on the stage marched, motioned, stomped and spun to foreboding, drum-laden music. It was like nothing I'd ever seen before, and even more special because of its true authenticity - we were the only foreigners in a massive tent packed with Tibetans of all ages, Tibetans who ran and jumped, bowed and crowded, asked for blessings and gave gifts as the Dalai Lama walked by - and we were lucky enough to be privy to a performance put on by and for these very people in celebration of their heritage and their most prominent member.
On Sunday night, I had the opportunity to celebrate Rosh Hashana in India. Since we were up the mountains, there wasn't another Jew for miles (other than my program director), and so Debi - my program director - and I celebrated together, and decided to share the celebration with the other members of my Bridge Year group as well. Debi put together an explanation of Rosh Hashana, which she read to everyone, after which we lit candles and all partook in Rosh Hashana customs together, eating apples and honey while Debi and I spoke about what Rosh Hashana means to us. It was really nice to share the holiday with the rest of the group, and being put in a situation where I had to explain Rosh Hashana to others actually made it a more reflective and meaningful Rosh Hashana for me, as I found myself expressing why it was important to me and how I am effected by its observence.
Immediately after Rosh Hashana ended, we launched into yet another celebration - my 18th birthday! It was strange to celebrate it away from home, my family and my friends, but my awesome new Bridge Year friends made it a wonderful celebration, full of delicious food, cake, surprises, gifts, cards and music. In addition to many other wonderful things, I am now the proud owner of beautiful, sparkly (glass) bangles (although less than were originally given to me, as it didn't take long before I broke a few, injuring myself in the process), the remaining of which are all currently adorning my arm. Mostly however, it was really nice to have people I've known for only a month - and some for less time than that - come together to celebrate with me, and to create such a wonderful celebration on my behalf.
The last celebration of the week took place at our Hindi tutor's house: At our last class, Yousef invited us to dinner at his home, an invitation that we took advantage of last night. It was a really special invitation to recieve because this obviously is not something he does for his other students, and also, considering the size of our group relative to the size of his home, it was quite an offer. I can say without a doubt that my entire Bridge Year group would agree that Yousef is the most interesting, thoughtful, endearing person we have met so far on this trip. He speaks with such candor and open-mindedness, but also with such conviction in his beliefs. We all sat together cross-legged on the rug-adorned floor of his bed-living-dining room and ate the most delicious meal we have had so far on this trip. I am proud to say that I ate for the first time with no silverware at all, even when we briefly ran out of chapatti (a flat, pita-like bread that is torn and used to scoop up the other food), at which point I followed his lead and simply pinched up my paneer with my fingers, plopping the delicious pieces in to my mouth. Although I can't say that I've mastered the hands-only technique when it comes to a soupier substance such as rice and dal, I'm well on my way! As always, it was really interesting to listen to Yousef speak, particularly about taking on responsibilities as head of the household after his father passed away, finding husbands for his sisters, and about his own arranged marriage, as well. It turns out that Yousef may be able to visit us in Banares later in the year, so we're all really looking forward to that!
And now, post celebration-mania, we're off to Benares, about to delve back in to real India and begin our gap year for real.
(pictures to come once I find a better internet connection)